Cortisol: Your Hidden Metabolic Powerhouse (Not Just a “Stress Hormone”)
- Bridgette Barlow
- 6 days ago
- 5 min read
When most women hear the word cortisol, they immediately think stress, weight gain, or burnout. And yes, cortisol can be linked to those things, but that’s not the full story.

Cortisol is actually a life-saving, life-sustaining hormone. You literally couldn’t survive without it. It plays a central role in your metabolism, your immune system, your energy levels, your blood sugar balance, and your ability to handle life’s ups and downs.
When kept in balance, cortisol is your metabolic friend — not your enemy. But in today’s fast-paced world, many women’s cortisol rhythms get thrown off, leading to hormone imbalances, stubborn weight, sleep issues, and more.
So let’s break down what cortisol really is, why your body needs it, and how to use it to your advantage for better hormone health and metabolism.
What Is Cortisol, Anyway?
Cortisol is a hormone made by your adrenal glands– little glands sit on top of your kidneys. It’s part of your body’s stress response system, known as the HPA axis (hypothalamic-pituitary-adrenal axis).
But cortisol isn’t just a stress hormone... it’s often called the “get up and go” hormone because it helps you wake up energized, regulate your blood sugar, and keep inflammation in check. It’s what helps your body respond and adapt to whatever life throws at you.
Why Cortisol Matters for Hormones and Metabolism
Cortisol affects nearly every system in your body — especially those tied to hormone balance and weight.
When cortisol gets out of whack, it can:
Slow down your thyroid, making you feel sluggish
Make your body less sensitive to insulin, which encourages fat storage around your belly
Throw off sex hormones like estrogen, progesterone, and testosterone, because your body focuses on survival first
Disrupt your sleep, which makes hormone and metabolism problems worse
In other words, when cortisol is too high, too low, or erratic, your metabolism and hormones pay the price.
The Physiology of Feeling Safe
Your body’s number one job is survival. If it senses danger, whether that’s physical, emotional, or even something subtle like chronic overwhelm or under-eating — it shifts into threat mode.
That means:
Cortisol stays high (or sometimes crashes from overuse)
Your body diverts resources away from digestion, reproduction, and repair
Your metabolism slows, muscle building stops, and fat burning pauses
You might feel wired but tired, puffy, irritable, or just “off”
Put simply: if your nervous system doesn’t feel safe, your metabolism doesn’t either. That’s why so many women struggle with stubborn weight and hormone symptoms — even when they’re doing all the “right” things.
The Hormone Hand-Off: From Ovaries to Adrenals
For women over 35, especially those in perimenopause or menopause, the body naturally begins to produce less estrogen and progesterone as ovarian function declines. To compensate, the adrenal glands (which also produce stress hormones like cortisol) are called on to take over part of the hormone production that the ovaries once handled. This means that if your adrenals are already overworked from chronic stress, lack of sleep, or poor recovery, they may struggle to meet this increased hormonal demand.
The result? More pronounced symptoms like fatigue, mood swings, weight gain, and burnout—making stress resilience and adrenal support absolutely essential during this stage of life.
How Stress Hormones Sabotage Your Weight Loss Mindset
Ladies, this is HUGE! When cortisol is dysregulated, either too high for too long or chronically depleted, it doesn’t just affect your body, it directly impacts your mindset. Elevated cortisol increases anxiety, overwhelm, and negative thought patterns, making it harder to stay motivated or consistent with healthy habits.
“If your stress hormones are out of balance, your weight loss strategy won’t work — no matter how 'clean' you eat.”
It also drives emotional reactivity and impulsivity, which can lead to self-sabotage, all-or-nothing thinking, and turning to food for comfort or control. When your brain is in survival mode, it craves quick relief, not long-term solutions, so even with the best intentions, you might find yourself stuck in cycles of emotional eating, procrastination, or harsh self-judgment. True mindset change becomes nearly impossible when your nervous system is dysregulated, which is why regulating cortisol is foundational to lasting success with weight loss, behavior change, and self-trust.
How to Work with Cortisol, Not Against It
Here are a few mindful ways to help your cortisol rhythm and show your body that it’s safe and supported:
Honor Your Natural Cortisol Rhythm: Cortisol should be highest in the morning to wake you up, then gradually taper off so you feel calm and ready to sleep at night. Try: Morning sunlight, gentle movement, and limiting late-night screens or caffeine.
Balance Blood Sugar: Every blood sugar crash triggers cortisol to spike. Keep meals balanced with protein, fiber, and healthy fats. Avoid skipping meals or crash dieting.
Practice nervous system regulation tools: Stress isn’t just in your head — your body feels it too. As a doctor friend of mine used to say “your issues are in your tissues!” Try: Deep breathing, gentle yoga or walking, and scheduled rest to reset your system. I have loads of tools that I teach my clients for this that take 5 minutes or less and make big impacts
Prioritize Sleep Lack of sleep means cortisol stays high the next day, making everything worse. Aim for consistent, restful sleep routines.
Avoid Overtraining More exercise isn’t always better. If you’re stressed, too much intense exercise can keep cortisol high. Focus on strength training a few times a week plus daily walks. This can actually reduce inflammation and make weight loss easier for you as well (if cortisol is chronically elevated).
Final Thoughts: Feeling Safe Is the Key to Hormonal Power
Cortisol is your body’s built-in resilience hormone. When your body feels safe and supported, it focuses on healing, hormone balance, muscle building, and fat burning.
This is why nervous system regulation, balanced blood sugar, good sleep, and smart exercise are the foundation of my coaching approach. They help your body feel safe — and when your metabolism feels safe, it starts to work with you, not against you.
Ready to Master Your Metabolism and Support Your Hormones?
If you want expert guidance on how to manage stress, regulate cortisol naturally, and unlock your metabolic potential, my Mind Over Metabolism live sessions are included in all my health coaching programs.
These live group sessions teach you simple exercises, practiced in real time, to not only regulate the nervous system but dive more deeply into mindset blocks through visualizations.
Don’t let cortisol confusion keep you stuck. Join us and take control of your hormonal health!
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Resources:
Cortisol’s Role in Stress and Metabolism Tsigos, C., & Chrousos, G. P. (2002). Hypothalamic–pituitary–adrenal axis, neuroendocrine factors and stress. https://doi.org/10.1016/S0022-3999(02)00429-4
Chronic Stress and Hormonal Dysregulation McEwen, B. S. (2007). Physiology and neurobiology of stress and adaptation: central role of the brain. https://doi.org/10.1152/physrev.00041.2006
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